411 For The M4MW

You are a male looking to hook up with a couple for sex.  You scour the Craig’s List ads for a likely pair to have sex with. You find an ad you like.  What do you do next?

You write to the couple.  You even include a photo or photos.

So what do you write?  What kind of photo(s) do you attach?

Do you write out your fantasy scene? How about what a great fuck you are and how good you are in bed? Do you include: A face pic?  A cock pic?  Both?

We have been playing as a couple for over 10 years.  We have seen it all.  We may not have done it all, but we have done what we liked. We have put up our share of ads in different places over the years looking for that single male to join us in some fun sex play.

So here are the Don’ts:

If you include a face pic – which is nice by the way – make sure it does not include anyone else in that photo.  The photo should be just YOU.  Including children, wives, girlfriends or strangers in a public space in your photo is creepy at best. Those emails go directly to the trash. Smile or have a poker face – but looking like a mean gangster or a doofus is not charming.  Trust me on this.

If you include a cock pic: Putting your cock next to a beverage can, having it covered in cum, on top of your computer keyboard or in a bathroom where there is a toilet or a mess in view – all leave a bad impression. Crop your photos!  I especially am turned off if I see a toilet behind you with the seat up and dirty clothes on the floor.  It tells me you are not clean – and you have no self respect. Ditto for a sink with all kinds of gooey mess and disorganized crap spread about.

Next, what do you write?  First: Read their post!!!  Read it 3 times if you must – and listen to what is being said there.  Pay attention!  They are telling you what they want, what they are looking for.  Is it something that appeals to you?  Great.  No? Then don’t bother writing to them. You are wasting your time and theirs.

Okay, you read their post.  Let’s say they are looking for a man to come and play for 30 minutes with the wife and then leave.  They are looking for an uncut cock or a cut cock (personal preferences) they are looking for someone who is respectful. They describe themselves and give you an idea of who they are.

Here is what NOT to write:

That you have the opposite kind of cock they are looking for – move on, they have a preference and stated it plainly.

That you can come multiple times and fuck for hours. They said 30 minutes and out.  They meant it. They aren’t looking for hours or multiple cum shots.

What you would like to do.  NO. NO. NO!  Resist the temptation to even go there.  If what you want and what they want are so far apart – it will never work.

Its insulting when the couple gets a suggestion in an email for her to rim your ass because it turns you on.  They don’t care what turns you on – because they expect being with a couple for sex should be the Turn On!  You want a woman to rim your ass? Find a woman who will do that OR Pay For It.  Don’t ask the couple who are already offering you something special for something you want — that was never offered in the first place!

Here is what to write:

Hello Couple

I am 47 yo, DDF, always use protection. I am including a face pic and a penis pic.  I am respectful and eager to please. Would love to be considered by you.  It sounds like it would be great to join in your fun. – Derek

Simple isn’t it?  Its clean, to the point and its about them – because baby, it is all about them.  It’s their show.  Want to join the show?  You need to fit in.

One of the worst emails received in response to our recent ad had 2 paragraphs about what he wanted me to do to him (including rimming his ass).  There wasn’t anything in our ad to suggest anything but a suck, fuck and go for him. I would suck ,  we would fuck and after he shot his load, he was to get dressed and leave. We were looking for the appetizer to the rest of our evening.  We were not looking for a 4 hour house guest that was going to dominate me in our bedroom. Quite the contrary.

And a close second for worst response to this weeks ad – the photo included in his response had a young boy and his father in the photo’s background. Yuk!  Creepy.

My next post will be about M4MW bedroom/sex manners.  Because even those who manage to get in our door often do not know how to behave when they get here. Do it right – you will be asked to return.  Do it wrong and you might be leaving early…

 

Cuckhold

So what does it mean when you see the term Cuckhold?  It means this: A man who is married or in a relationship with a woman who has sex with other men.  In todays terms, she not only has sex with other men, she controls sex in the relationship.

Most genuine cuckholds enjoy the humiliation of seeing their wife with another male or males.  Very often the husband is unable to get an erection and fuck his wife.

So why the nipple pic?  Because pleasing your sexual partner has many different meanings within any given relationship.

I love to fuck my man.  Every evening I climb behind him and fuck him until I just can’t do it anymore. He enjoys this activity – so it pleases both of us.

He started cupping his nipples to make them bigger in order to pinch them better with his nipple clamps.  This particular pain makes his penis jump and get hard.  It is pleasurable for him.  Since he started cupping, his nipples have become even more sensitive.  He can barely stand his nipple clamps any more.  When he shows me his newly cupped nipples in the morning it gets me very excited.  They are red and raised.  Pinching them is a very fun thing for me to do.  For both of us.

When Paladin is ordered to climb between my legs and get me off – he enjoys that – and of course I get an orgasm – what is not to enjoy there?

Notice a theme?  Unless something is off limits for one of us, it stays on the table.

Last night Paladin was put in restraints and tied to the bed.  I got out my floggers, my paddle and I let loose on his ass and his back.  He can jump and such, but he cannot go anywhere.  This activity is often a warm up to my fucking him – and this was no exception.  I really wanted to try out my new dildo on him.  Things did not work out as planned. The new cock was too big for him.  We may work him up to it, but it was just too much.

Respect.  Not only do I love this man, I respect him.  I respect his needs, his desires and his pain.   If something is too much, its too much.  I am still learning his limits, his abilities.

Trust. We trust one another to tell the other person the truth. No exceptions here either. If you do not have that in a relationship, you don’t have a good relationship.  You have a relationship that is part sham.

Tonight another male I don’t know at all is coming over to have sex with me in front of Paladin.  He is older, he is wanting sex.  His cock gets hard.  He is not a friend.  He is not someone I want to get to know.  I simply want to have his cock in my mouth and pussy and to do it in front of Paladin’s big blue eyes. Paladin enjoys the humiliation.  It gives him what he describes as a deliciously painful set of feelings that – guess what? – make Paladin’s cock get very hard. It is a very big turn on for him.  It becomes synergistic.  Every aspect of our relationship is enhanced during this activity. I love to romp with other males for the physical sensations.  Paladin loves to watch me do this.  Win Win Win.

Last let’s talk about Craig’s List, Adult Friend Finder, Back Page and all the other places couples might go to meet those males who would like to fuck in front of the Cuckhold. Yes, you need to be careful.  That kind of goes without saying.  Using protection (condoms) is usually a must. Unless you find that Unicorn male who is married, who wants to be in a single sexual relationship with a couple and has had a vasectomy.  V Safe its called.  No HIV passes through a set of fixed balls.  No pregnancy could happen.  Approach with caution still.

Almost all Cuckholds want to clean up their wife’s pussy after a fuck with another man. A dream for many is to have that pussy filled with the cum shot left behind from the other male.  If you can find this man, you can give your lover the ultimate gift.  A wet cum soaked pussy.  We’ve not done this yet.  We have not yet found our Unicorn. But we are looking!

Beware the male who says he is a Bull, a Dom or other adjectives like Hard Pounder.  Unless that is what you want – run from these types.  If you put up an ad, make it simple.  If you are a true Cuckhold Couple – you are not both submissives.  I am not a submissive by any stretch of the imagination.  I bow down to no male.  Period.  My husband and I are partners in every sense of the word.  In the bedroom, in sex play – I am on top.  The rest of our life is spent as true equals in everything.  When one of us can’t carry the day, the other picks things up and moves forward- when one of us needs something we help to get that thing and in the every day stuff like cleaning, laundry and cooking – we share the load.

I’ve had many women ask me if my husband has a brother (No, sorry!).  Yes, I have a rare beast I share my life with.  He is always looking to improve himself inside – a rare thing, I know.  We are not perfect, but we are perfect for one another.  Best friends, lovers, and companions in life.

Spank It

Oh that tush!  Before pegging, before anything else I often start with pinking up that bottom and sometimes that chest with those already sore nipples.

We have a lovely black leather flogger which only gets better with age and use.  I also have a homemade flogger using rope.  You can make your own and its dual purpose.  You can tie them up later with it!  Last is the riding crop.  This was a Halloween prop when I purchased it.  You can find more in the way of crops these days that aren’t too expensive – but back when I purchased this one, it was under 10 bucks and it worked fine.  I did replace the paddle part recently as the leather had gotten crispy.  Crispy is not good.  You want it to be flexible.

I started with the rope flogger.  If you haven’t done this before, practice on a pillow for aim and snap.  I want a particular part of his ass to pink up so aim is important.  Following the rope flogger with the leather flogger I don’t stop with his ass.  I flog his balls too.  He jumps in such a thrilling way when I do this.  Last comes the crop.  Any area I have missed pinking up I will spank selectively with the crop often followed by my bare hand spank.

If you really want to heighten the sensations for your lover, softly caress the areas you flogged or spanked and then go back to flogging or spanking.  Repeat this throughout the flogging.  Watch the little goosebumps rise on that ass when you do!

Last night I flogged his nipples as well. He uses suction devices on them because they are so tiny.  The suction brings swelling. After that they get a good bit of pinching.  So my flogger has something to bite into after all of that.

Pinked up bottom and nipples means ready to ride.  And I do ride him.  I ride him until I have an orgasm.  I vary my speed and strength of push and revel in the sounds Paladin makes while I do this.  When I see some sweat start to form between his shoulder blades I know I am hitting that sweet spot.  At some point fully inside him I will lie on his back, reach under his chest and pinch his nipples.  Delightful!

All of this was followed by him inserting his purple butt plug and crawling between my legs for service.  My pussy was already wet from the ride.  It was so ready for that tongue! Hard, deep and long.  That is what my orgasm felt like.

I slept so well last night.  I wonder why?  Bwahahaha!!!!

 

Sunday Funday

 Swing it baby!

My Sunday morning surprise was Paladin walking out to the kitchen while I was sipping my coffee with his parachute ball stretcher on in his slippers!  Yes!  The chains they jingled jangled as he walked.

Sunday was a long marvelous day filled with the usual chores interlaced with some wild fun in the bedroom.

We had a long session in the early evening.  Paladin showered, rinsed out his ass and put in his new purple butt plug. The butt plug helps to relax the anus so when I fuck him it doesn’t hurt.  It shouldn’t hurt when I slam that dildo inside him.  If it does hurt at all – it should be in a good way.  The sphincter should never be damaged by ass play.  That is an invitation to disease and certainly will stop your play.  Be gentle and use caution with stretching.  His ass is yours.  Treat it well.

I flogged him until his ass pinked and then rode him.  I had a spikey little O when I did this.  When I pump him, the strap-on harness gives me feedback via the strap that runs across my clit and between my labia. When pulling back there is some resistance and it digs in and rubs my clit.  Pushing in pushes my clit up against the strap which brings another sensation.

A word about your strap-on.  Mine is leather.  Its adjustable and I love it.  I always wear panties or some other garment like pajama bottoms before putting it on. It keeps the leather from coming into contact with my sensitive lady bits. It also has the advantage of having a secure place for a vibe if you want one.  Put in the vibe, pull up the panties and then grab your harness.

Again, I have to say I love love love this new King Cock by Pipedream.  I look down and see awesome!  Still waiting on the 8 inch I ordered, but this one works just fine.  Paladin brought a pillow from the living room to elevate his ass a bit – and that was the ticket.  The cock stayed firmly in his ass.

Because Paladin’s dick is tiny and doesn’t work too well, and because I can’t always have another male over to fuck me I got a sweet hollow cock for him to wear and penetrate me with. Weeeeee!!!!!

Once we got the angle right, he was able to pump my pussy and get me excited all over again.  So he could eat me.

I had decided that Paladin would get his release Sunday evening.   After he serviced my pussy with his creative tongue it was time.  I took off his cock cage and I gave him some nice soft fondles and them some stroking.  When he got a little hard, I sucked and then gave him a nice hand job. He got very hard and he shot quite the load onto his chest.  It was awesome!

 

Saturated Saturday Part 2

New toys arrived on Saturday via USPS.  I ordered a new dong for my strap-on and boy am I impressed!  The photo on the top is my new cock ready to go in my strap-on belt.  The photo on the bottom is what I ordered last night.  Why order again? Size.

I ordered the original 6 inch size which is wonderful – no complaints – but to keep it inside Paladin’s butt while I pumped him was tricky.  So I ordered the 8 inch.  Hurry up Amazon, I’m waiting!

Back to Saturday night. When I put on my strap-on I looked down and was so jazzed – it looks so real!  Then there were the reports from Paladin as I fucked him face flat on the bed, “It feels like a real cock!” And he would know.

Unlike our other dongs, this one not only looks real, it feels real.  Pipedream got this so right!  I’ve fucked Paladin before, but not like this.  This time I had an orgasm.  Fucking A Johnny Rubber!  What more could a girl want?  Oh, well… if you knew me, you would know I almost always want more!

After a long session of butt fucking I turned him over and rode his entrapped tiny cock.  I am starting to have a collection of cock cages.  Something for every occasion, every mood.  The cage he was wearing was the silicone black sheath with the silver metal ring. Yummy looking and feels wonderful to touch, even better to grind on with my pussy.  Oops, another orgasm! Followed by another when I had Paladin give me oral.

Then there was a little extra I hadn’t expected.  Pumping Paladin for so long I had actually milked him.  His cage was dripping cum.  Bonus!

Next I tried the new butt plug we bought at Lions Den.  Just a smidge too big – but we will get him there.  I switched to the medium purple plug that came in the mail and it fits perfectly.  A great way for him to start the day.  Incoming!

Last, Paladin wanted to try his new sounds.  I am not a guy, so I have not clue one how this feels.  It looks scary to me – putting something like that, in there.  I have nothing to equate that with.  It made him feel good and it made him happy.  That is all that really matters. At some point I will dedicate a post to this particular activity.

Sunday has just begun.  Photos have been taken and play is planned (by me) for later.  I will post on Monday what happened on Sunday.

 

Saturated Saturday

Pinch Pinch those nipples my man.  I love to pinch and watch you jump!

So today we went to the Lions Den here in Las Vegas.  It’s behind Circus Circus.  There is a Video Arcade inside where you pay for your card, go inside the arcade, choose a booth and put that card in the slot that runs the porn video and off to the races.  Yes its tawdry, its low down and dirty even – which is why it is fun.

Paladin discovered and tried out the Arcade at Lions Den several times before today.  He sucks cock – he loves sucking cock.  And as chance would have it he discovered the one booth that has a glory hole.  I wanted to see this for myself so we decided to go today – after he sucked a guys cock here at home.  Because, you know, he can’t seem to get enough cock to suck.  I like watching so I sit on the bed and enjoy the show.

Before we left for the arcade Paladin’s cock was locked up in the sweet black cage.  Once we were inside the booth (boy it is dark back there!) and the video was running and illuminating that small space I could see an L shaped bench and the system for the video on the wall.  Paladin removed his clothes, put a towel on the bench for his naked butt and we waited.

Porn videos for me are generally boring.  The women are acting – mostly badly – and the guys tend to pound so hard I grab my own crotch thinking that there isn’t enough money in the world for me to let some man do that to my pussy.  The few who have tried doing that with me have been kicked in the face and asked to leave asap. The porn offerings in the booth were everything from MILF to Gay to Group to Bi-sexual.  You can find anything on the menu.  A guy can sit in there, watch porn and jerk himself off.  But we were sitting in the booth with the glory hole!

After a few minutes a man in the adjoining booth flashed his naked cock.  It was a nice one.  Paladin sucked it while I squeezed his balls.  I squeezed a bit too hard.  One of his balls escaped the ring and moved inside of his body.  The cock cage was coming off – without the balls in place there was nothing to hold it there.  So I tucked the cage in my purse before we back out to the store to go shopping.

Tomorrow I will write about our new toys and the ass fucking I gave Paladin tonight.  It rocked.  It ruled.

 

 

Pinky & Paladin’s Sexual Adventures

Paladin Caged

Let me start here: I am Pinky.  Half of the fearless sexual duo.  This is my attempt to chronicle our adventures in sex and life while living here in the Las Vegas area of Nevada. My partner is Paladin.  He is my hero.  He is my love.  My life companion.  He is also my Sex Cuck. No, I didn’t misspell that.  Cuck, as in cuckhold.

Above is Paladin’s cock and balls restrained in a new chastity device.  It was a bit tricky to get on the first time.  Part of that was my own excitement of locking up those genitals — my hands were shaking a little trying to thread the tiny lock hasp through the tiny holes. This device was an improvement over the first one we tried out.

I poked my finger inside the cage – there was pre-cum on the tip of his cock.  Weeeee!!!!  Yes!

It was thrilling to see Paladin’s package trussed up and then to send him off to walk the dog wearing the new cage under his clothes without underwear.  What would the neighbors think if they knew?!  I laughed to myself while putting a salad together for our dinner. My clit tingled with every thought of him in that cage.

We didn’t reach this point overnight.  Both of us had a myriad of sexual encounters and journeys that led to this point in our lives. We’ve had various partners, tried everything from swapping to sex with strangers in clubs and all that lies between those romps.

Paladin and I have never read 50 Shades of Gray.  Frankly, we had been living with whips, chains, ankle cuffs, dildos (and a host of other toys) for ages when that book came out.  It sounded like a yawn.  I would always rather do something than talk about it.  So much more fun!

Finally, after dinner and a shower I had Paladin service me orally.  My orgasm is heightened knowing he cannot touch himself – and tonight was wonderful.  It was a sharp hard climax.   Afterward I took the cage off and told him tomorrow night he would get his own.  “Whatever you want,” he said.  My heart went pitty-pat.

Yes.  Whatever I want. Yes.