In case you missed it, this is Part 2 of 411 M4MW. If you haven’t read the post before this one, I suggest you do.
So you got into the Couple’s Door. They picked you from about 100 guys who wrote to them about their ad. Congratulations!
Do you want to be asked back after this encounter? You need to follow some simple rules.
Bring your own condoms! For us, that is your ticket for admission. Ask if they have a preference. If they do, bring those.
Abide by any rules set forth by the couple. Do not suggest or otherwise try to push your own agenda with them. Assume nothing. If you aren’t sure about something – ask them politely.
No bragging. They don’t need to hear about your oral skills. They don’t want to hear about how you made the last woman scream when she came. Keep your comments to a minimum.
Do not talk about testing for STDs unless they ask. If you tell us about how often you are tested, we will assume you are having way too much unprotected sex. We may not show you the door on this one – but we will play safe (no kissing, no oral anything with you) and we will never ask you back. Never.
If the woman says her breasts are sensitive and not to suck too hard – and this may sound like a no brainer – don’t suck hard on those nipples. If she says not so fast, not so hard – back the hell off the throttle. If I have to tell a guy more than once to take it easy with me and be gentle I am likely to ask him to get dressed and leave. That is a complete turn off. This is about pleasure. If you hurt a woman, all those really good feelings that were building will vanish in a hot second.
Porn sex is not real sex. Whatever you have been watching, forget it when you get naked with that couple. A woman’s genitals are soft, moist and tender. Don’t get hand hammy and rough! It doesn’t feel good, it feels quite the opposite. Imagine having a hair brush rubbed roughly across the head of your cock. Imagine your cock being given a massage by small rough logs. Ouch? Yes, for most, ouch! The only exceptions here are if the woman asks for it harder, faster, rougher. Some women do like it rough. Again, be sensible, pay attention and ask if in doubt.
“How does that feel?” is a really excellent question from a lover who is trying to please. This works on girlfriends and wives too.
When the fun is over and everyone has had their Big O, and you feel the need to clean up before putting on your clothes – ask them where you can do that. They may have you use the guest bathroom. We have a towel for our guest in case he needs to rinse off or do some general clean up before dressing.
Do not linger unless you are asked to. Tell them you enjoyed yourself and Thank Them. Its basic manners. It builds a bridge. If they were looking for a friend to hang with, they will have already told you that. If they said nothing about that, you need to leave. If you follow these steps, chances are better than good you will be asked back. Why do you think that is?
The reason we ask so few men to return for another romp is because they have violated 2 or more of the rules I just laid out. 1 in 10 gets a return trip. When we find that guy, that one, we will play with him exclusively until we or he gets bored or becomes otherwise involved. This is ideal.
The more time we spend with that guy, the better he gets to know us and us him. The sex is better. If he is especially good, I will even do things for him that are just for him — things that were on his secret wish list even. He’s earned it.
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